Hard as life- Melissa Nieuwoudt-CROWN OF CONQUEST-AUTHENTICITY IS KEY
- This topic has 1 reply, 1 voice, and was last updated 1 week, 6 days ago by
.
-
Posts
-
-
Life can be hard. The questions should be whether it is us who makes it hard for ourselves? Whether our thinking or the choices we make? Forced behavior or by conscious decisions?
The outcome will and cannot be the same for above mentioned scenarios. We are often conditioned to feel or think a certain way perhaps by belief or generational upbringing and control. For some bullied into a decision, we do not necessarily want to be in. Whatever the reasoning, it carries impact, consequences and a good deal of understanding. We can only connect dots by looking back. Often, we only realize our condition after the fall. I read you attract what you are ready for. That resonated with me and even shook me a little. We ask why it is happening to me, yet we so foolishly apply the same stupid mindset as we repeat our cycle, habitual mistakes and patterns without understanding why. Traumas and triggers are real and very sly opponents, its sting- painful. We are familiar too with the famous saying that it will keep repeating until you truly have learned the lesson.Sometimes we get so carried away in what other people will think, allow ourselves to be manipulated and to follow the crowd that we forget to be present, authentic and true to ourselves. So many times, we do not grant enough time to overcome hurt, confusion, pain and perhaps actions we are too afraid to admit we regret. We stay in our pain-body and we neglect our inner ability to feel free and of strength. Perhaps for some of us, we become what people so often label us as. One can only truly understand the effect, once you have been through the same sin others keep reminding you of. Whether it is the projection, gaslighting they shower you with as reflection of their own insecurities, lies and hidden actions or to gain power by keeping you hostage and imprisoned by your own past. For some you become who they say you are in their own lack of understanding and blindness even their own inability to be forgiving towards themselves.
No man can grow when a friend, lover or loved one keeps being the cause you relive your mistakes. No human can survive such punishment, before they fail again. Not because it IS who they are, but what curse it is that was spoken over them. We need to stop and think before we speak, label and do. For what we think, we become. What we become has an effect on our future happiness and success.
Love is patient, love is kind yet the mankind is the unkind- kind. Romans 5:8 -But God commended His love towards us, in that, while we are all sinners, Christ died for us. Shall we not serve with loving forgiving hearts of peace, beauty and deliverance from all evil and wicked ways of mankind?
Some of us are soldiers. Some warriors, yet we forget, God won’t ever give us a battle we cannot fight and overcome. We must fall, to rise. We must experience pain, to feel relief. We must be brought to humbleness and prayer to know what it feels like to be alive, well and saved. Life will always try test us. Break us. Have us fail. The time is now to not react out of possible hurt, anger or spitefulness. I can confess, it will only lead to shame, regret and more pain. Soften it with a better understanding that you are worthy. Forgiven. More than the labelling and that you are not defined by your past or the words others label you with. It is not who you are. Stand up, dust yourself off. Repent. Forgive those who wronged you. Go be your best version the world is yet to feel, see and experience. Life can be hard, but love-soul, so are you! Go find your magic, then go be your magic and life will soften.
Fly in freedom Pay it forward
-
Thank you for your hard work and your loyalty Melissa, your weekly posts are very much appreciated.
Stay Blessed always.Nat
-
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.